Sitting with the Silence: Becoming Comfortable with the Uncomfortable

This specialized course will provide Donation Advocates with essential strategies to navigate discomfort, silence, and emotional intensity in high-stakes family conversations. Gain actionable insights into staying present through resistance, managing internal responses, and supporting families with both empathy and intentional engagement during some of their most challenging moments.

Learn how to recognize and work through emotional complexity, including the natural instinct to reduce discomfort, and develop skills to remain grounded and effective when conversations become difficult. Gain actionable insights into self-awareness, intentional silence, and reflective practice to strengthen your ability to guide meaningful conversations without withdrawing or rushing resolution.

Explore the connection between discomfort, empathy, and presence, and what it means in the context of donation advocacy to build the confidence to “sit with the silence.” This course will help you create a balanced approach that supports effective donation advocacy while providing thoughtful, compassionate space for families to process and make informed decisions.
Personal

Reflections

Expanded

Learning Guide

In-depth

Webinar

Guided

Journaling

Reinforced

Knowledge Checks

Essential Course Elements

Course contents

Meet the invited speaker

Kathleen Shumpert

Donation Specialist, Center for Donation and Transplant
Prior to joining CDT, Kathleen was employed in addiction services for Rensselaer County Family Treatment Court, working with families to overcome addiction challenges in the criminal justice setting. With the goal of stabilizing the family unit and the reunification of children with their parents, Kathleen's had a lifelong interest in behavioral science and motivation. She has a Bachelor of Science in Biochemistry and a Masters of Science in Psychology with a focus on forensic psychology from Purdue University.